you don't understand, so stop generalizing. stop putting me in the same box as you. not that i find you far better off (which you are), but it is not the same.
you do not understand me, but since you're in a position, i unwillingly agree that we are of the same. see, i'm gracious. unfortunately, i can't say the same about everyone. because some just don't understand, and probably never will.
now what do i do, when i don't want it to come?